Terms of Use

Last updated: October 19, 2026

These terms apply to your use of thevelvetletters.com and to any digital product you buy from The Velvet Letters. By using the site or buying a product, you agree to them.

Digital products

Our products are digital downloads (PDF files) and are delivered by Gumroad right after purchase. Gumroad processes your payment, and its terms also apply to your checkout.

Your license

When you buy a product, you get a personal, non-transferable license to download, read and print it for your own use. You may not resell, share, upload, distribute or republish the files or their contents, in whole or in part, without our written permission. All content is owned by The Velvet Letters and protected by copyright.

Results vary

Our guides offer communication ideas and example messages for educational and entertainment purposes. They aren't therapy, counseling, or medical, legal or other professional advice. Every relationship is different, and we can't and don't promise any particular outcome, including how another person will respond. You're responsible for how you use the content.

Safety

If you feel unsafe in a relationship, our products are not the right resource. Please contact local emergency services or a support line in your area.

Refunds

All sales are final because our products are instant digital downloads. If you have trouble accessing your file, email [email protected] and we'll fix it. See our Refund Policy.

Limitation of liability

To the fullest extent the law allows, The Velvet Letters isn't liable for any indirect, incidental or consequential damages arising from your use of the site or our products. Our total liability for any claim is limited to the amount you paid for the product in question.

Changes

We may update these terms from time to time. The version posted here applies from the date shown at the top.

Contact

Email [email protected].